Should a person that has had a tainted life, a bad childhood,?

I always say that the past should stay in the past. Whatever that this woman did is in the past and she is no longer that same person. It is sad and unfair to this woman that people are judging her because of her past. I think people should look at themselves before judging others. This woman has changed her life around and she should be so proud of herself. This woman should not punish herself and say that she is not worthy of this man. She has a right like anyone else to be in a relationship. And she should not hold back on her relationship because she does deserve to be in a relationship. And her getting involved with someone who has so much innocence has nothing to do with why he's with her. This man is with her because he wants to be. This woman should get up in the morning and look at herself in the mirror and say to herself how lucky she is to be who she is today. That's all that should matter to her. This woman should not have any doubts about this relationship. The only thing she needs to do is not to let people get to her. Once she can do that then she will have a wonderful relationship with this man. This man should not suffer because of her past. And if she lets people get to her then he's going to suffer because she is going to continue to hold back. And this is really not fair to him. There will always be people out there that will judge. And the ones that do judge people are the ones that should look at themselves first. So the lady in question has nothing to worry about. And you should remind her how proud she should be that she has turned her life around.